
Aggressors and victims at the same time
Boys are caught between expectations, isolation and violence.
Perspectives | Education15/04/2025
What is making boys believe that only violence gives them worth?
Our society is still a patriarchal society, governed by rigid gender roles, where being a man means being dominant, strong, the breadwinner — the patriarch.
Even when they are neither victims nor aggressors, many remain lost — absorbed by the screens of their phones, following male figures who promote hatred and contempt.
When there is neither motivation to continue their education nor support to build a future here, some of them choose to leave. Not always as rebels, nor as adventurers — but often as invisible.

Vlora Konushevci
Vlora Konushevci works in public and media relations. She completed her studies in English Language and Literature at the University of Prishtina, where she also obtained a masters in Linguistics. She is also a poet and translator and has been published in various publications and anthologies.
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